I thought occurred to me;
you meet a girl she says she’s on the pills but she lies, then it’s still your fault that she gets pregnant and you are evil if you don’t wanna contribute and can be forced to do so by the law.
But if you meet a girl and she says she doesn’t have HIV but she lies then it’s her fault that I get the disease and she can be punished by law.
Both scenarios include me having sex that I would not have had if she had told me the truth. And both results in a for me life changing event.
But in one the result is my fault and in the other it’s hers.
What am I missing?