Im so lost right now. Need advice!

    Do you know that Arctic Monkeys song - Do I Wanna Know ? Pretty much sums up everything going on in this thread.

    Quote from Tisky

    19 minutes ago, Tisky said: I replied and talked some but then she said that she did not know why she wrote and that she needs to be alone. Wtf ?

    That was a moment of vulnerability where she opened up towards you. If you didn't catch onto that.. well, too bad. Maybe we should write some articles on mapcore about it ;)

    wait

    Quote from Sprony

    21 hours ago, Sprony said: You've been made bro. Women can smell that loneliness on you. That's not me trying to insult you, but me simply stating the facts. I bet everyone here can confirm that when they were single, girls weren't that interested. But as soon as they were in a relationship, they seem to attract every female in a 5 mile radius. Because you are no longer looking and you feel desirable (either knowingly or unknowingly) they pick up on that real quick and that makes you attractive. Your current attitude and position doesn't.

    In short, the less fucks you give, the more fucks you get.

    Here's another great example. Being seen, alone, interacting with your child (the younger, the better). That triggers so much in a woman. You wouldn't believe the amount of women I could have dated if I wasn't married. Not because I'm attractive, but just because their unconscious is telling them I'm good daddy material.

    WELL FUCK


    that explains a lot

    Quote from Tisky

    13 hours ago, Tisky said: Why facepalm, it's not like anything matters now. My point is that bitches be weird.

    She wanted to go balls deep

    The last few days i have been thinking about it all, again. Trying not to but it gets me angry, and annoyed. Why the fuck is it so hard to just let it go? Even the mother of my kids was easier to let go than this. What is wrong with me? Anyway, all thoughts, i have not done anything, no texts or that shit. I got the keys to my new crib yesterday and i have started to move my stuff. Attic and basement storage is empty now and the kids room is almost empty too. Next saturday i will get help from some friends so i can move the heavy stuff!

    Feels really good to move, i hope it will help me think less about stuff. Like, just watching my bed today i can see her in it, memories haunting. They are nice memories but after a while i keep thinking of her being with that ugly ass husband of hers and it all starts to feel unfair. The phone call that fucked it all up and me not really knowing if she is lying or not. I just can't wait to get out of here, it's really killing me inside.

    The thing is that some girls you will still think about when you are 80. I still think a lot about this one ex, that was my "the one" so far. And I know from other people that even though they are 100% happy and life is great, they often have this one they never can't stop thinking about. I guess that's life ;) Just have to accept it, fight stupid urges and move on.

    Yeah, one day i think she is a bitch and all that stuff, next day, you are lonely and miss her like hell. The trick is to stay busy but its not easy. Movies almost all My stuff this weekend, that fit in My car and that i could carry myself. Being sad really makes me less lazy ?. Something good!

    Fucking crap. Went to the burger place by my work on my lunch break. As i step out of the car guess who drives by me. Yes. She smiled and waved and i waved back, trying not to smile. Guess i need to move to another country to forget her :(

    Awesome movie, haha. Out with a friend having beers last night. He is a friend of her husband.

    He started talking about how all his friends have the family life (he has No kids). After a while talking about that he used her husband as an example. '**** lives the Happy family life. They are so Happy and do stuff together all the time!'

    Either he knows/suspects something about me and her, or she simply lied to me all along. So odd to use that guy as a reference.. I could barely sleep last night because all the thinking my douchebag brain decides to do.

    How the fuck can i just not let this shit go. It keeps coming back!

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