Im so lost right now. Need advice!

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    On 1/16/2017 at 7:57 PM, Sprony said: Whenever I talk about family I'm referring to the people that make me happy. Those are my family, blood is overrated. In regards to talking about feelings, just listen to this wisdom. It's true, all of it:

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    QFT, people you choose to stay in touch with are your family, the blood ties are purely accidental.

    So i did it. I ended it, this "friendship". I'm not sure today why she wanted to be friends but i guess it was to keep tabs on me or something. When she contacted me again she was all sweet and kind, as usually, and after 2-3 weeks the same thing happens. She was annoyed when i wrote or asked some question and said she did not want to socialize with anyone right now.

    So i was at work, thinking fuck, those mapcore dudes were so right. I did not feel good when i there was silence between me and her but i felt better. I guess her being an immature child and egoistic bastard helped alot but i just told her the truth.

    "You make me feel like shit, sorry but this friendship thing is not working." She said that i had to do what i had to do, and that she hoped i was not angry or disappointed in her. I told her i was because i do not think she has been truthful.

    "I never lied to you" she said, well boom shackalacka i replied "And i have not lied to you, but as you know words mean nothing apparantly. Sorry!"

    Fuck that shit. I finally had enough and boy it actually feels great.


    Not a happy ending (well maybe since i probably dodged a fat big bullet), but sometimes you have two choices in life, to keep fightning or to move on, and boy am i outta ammo right now. :D

    The motherfucking end! WUBALUBADUBDUB!

    Still nothing, which is nice. This time it's easier because i am really fed up with everything. I got info on my new apartment yesterday so looks like im moving next weekend already! I have no idea how im going to get it done in time but hell it will keep me occupied.

    New apartment and new beginnings right? I tried Tinder but fuck that shit, it is so shallow. Tried the pub here last friday, and met a girl i used to work with (7 years ago or so), she bought me a beer and told me to not leave when i was on my way home, and instead join them at their table. It was nice but nothing happened there, i think she was just being friendly which was nice!

    Anyhow, hope you guys have more luck :D

    Because i have been alone for many years after my ex left me, i never did want to be alone. I miss having someone to come home to. You know, i feel i have had enough time focusing on myself!

    I get What you mean but Im past that.

    Honestly, I've never had much luck when I've actively been searching for girls in the past. Dating sites are shit, people are usually on there because they can't keep a partner down because they have something wrong with them (Too clingy, too demanding, gold diggers and all that kind of stuff). In person, I guess it comes across as a bit desperate if you're looking for someone every time you leave the house.

    Maybe that's just me and you might have more luck there but in my own experience I've got with more girls when I've just enjoyed myself and done things I wanted to do. I don't have kids and I know that will play a part in finding someone but just spend time with your kids, take up some new hobbies or activities, go drinking with your friends and go outside more. You'll just meet loads more people actually enjoying yourself and they'll probably be more attracted to a happy person rather than someone who might come across as a little desperate. I'm not saying you are desperate, but just saying that's how it could come across if you get me?

    You've been made bro. Women can smell that loneliness on you. That's not me trying to insult you, but me simply stating the facts. I bet everyone here can confirm that when they were single, girls weren't that interested. But as soon as they were in a relationship, they seem to attract every female in a 5 mile radius. Because you are no longer looking and you feel desirable (either knowingly or unknowingly) they pick up on that real quick and that makes you attractive. Your current attitude and position doesn't.

    In short, the less fucks you give, the more fucks you get.

    Here's another great example. Being seen, alone, interacting with your child (the younger, the better). That triggers so much in a woman. You wouldn't believe the amount of women I could have dated if I wasn't married. Not because I'm attractive, but just because their unconscious is telling them I'm good daddy material.

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    1 hour ago, Sprony said: I bet everyone here can confirm that when they were single, girls weren't that interested. But as soon as they were in a relationship, they seem to attract every female in a 5 mile radius.

    Every. Single. Time. xD

    Well it's no surprise that girls like status & when you're single you are useless but when you are with someone you have shown that you can indeed attract other people, the thought process is like you get together with girl > other girls see that girl likes you enough to get together hence there must be something special about you

    i have a phd in being a virgin spending my days making models, textures and bodybuilding, so you can relax and trust me

    Lol. Yeah maybe i come off as desperate. I got a text from that other girl who called when i was with the special one. I replied and talked some but then she said that she did not know why she wrote and that she needs to be alone. Wtf ?

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