Quote from blackdogMe and my girlfriend almost broke up yesterday. Awful weekend, felt like a massive waste of free time.
I talked her out of it and I dunno if that was the correct choice as I still dunno if I want a life with her. I just feel like I haven't been given the opportunity to make things right, that she always moves the ball and I can't even play.
That sounds like a familiar preamble.. ![]()
Think about her reasons for wanting to break up. If -like me- these reasons weren't that close to reality or possible to fix then she may of already made her mind up and by 'talking her out of it' you've just dragged it out a little bit more. And if that's the case you should be thinking of moving on first.
Erm..hopefully that is helpful and not hard to hear just now, If it makes it an easier pill to swallow I'm much happier now, even though I can't find anywhere to live and my life is a total mess ![]()