Deep thread. DeepCore. Just read the whole thread and it's awesome that a lot of you can post so openly about the problems you've all had and I think it's great to see that there are a lot of people in the same boat who could help or be there to talk to.
It also makes me think of just how fortunate I am, as I've always had a very supportive family and not suffered any major setbacks. I can relate in a lot of ways to most of you, being the kid who was always shut in his bedroom for 16 hours at a time on the computer, not sleeping enough with grades slipping, bullied at school and being quite introvert I suppose. I don't think that is unusual of the type of person who works in our industry and really that changed when I reached 18/19 and went to Uni.
Quote from SpronyvanJohnsonEverything you ever want can be accomplished by sheer determination and help from the people that love you. Because nobody can make it out here alone. Also, never be ashamed for being you or for your past. It has made you the man you are today.
This is generally how I try to live my life. I'm pretty impulsive and headstrong, if there's something I want bad enough or want to do I'll go after it or have it. I try live my life by the 'life's too short' ethos because I don't want to get to a point in my life where I have regrets.
I should probably post about my current life. When I first started working at Codemasters I moved to Birmingham and rented a flat in the city centre, 10 minute walk from work which I loved for the convenience and how nice the flat was. After about a year of living here I realised that it was making me unhappy as I was spending every penny I earned on rent and bills and that was no way to live.
I moved out of the flat in with my girlfriend's mum about half an hour drive from work and I give her mum some money every month but I spend nowhere near as much money as I did in the flat. This meant I bought my dream car, my girlfriend and I get to go out more and do more activities together and I see my friends and family a lot more. They say money can't buy you happiness but not having any to spare can certainly make you miserable.
I love the projects I'm working on right now and I'm pretty content with where I'm at right now. Slowly saving money for a house and living life as much as I can. A pay rise would be nice though ![]()
It's good to see a thread like this, it's rare that people open up in this way. Good Job Mapcore.