Quote from Captain PIn the second relation when having sex, you can't fully give yourself to that girl anymore.
I gotta hear this explained. I give myself fully to my steady girlfriend all the time and love her with all my heart. Shockingly enough we have a healthy sex life. Your point being...?
Quote from Captain PAnd if you're saying that christians make mistakes... well, that's true. Those that are actually christians are still humans, and not everyone does an equally great job at serving God, but it's by grace that we live and we're saved by God because He loves us. That's asolutely no excuse to sin, in fact using it as an excuse would be throwing away what God has given us and actually rejecting Him again.
The Christians over here could take a lesson in humility. More often than not they treat themselves as "better" than everyone else. As for what you said about you knowing that God doesn't approve of divorce. I really really reeeeeeeally loathe it when people claim to know the mind of God, especially relating to something as banal as what covers for our own elaborate mating ritual.