My fault when she lies.

[kleinluka]

you can truly love someone without being married to them... but lets not get too off-topic or this is gonna turn into a heated debate :S

[⌐■_■]

haha

Yes, u are right Klein. But I think that was not the point Captain P was trying to make. And if it was, I disagree.

What I ment was: when lust is the only drive, one should ask him/herself if he/she is doing the right thing.

And no, marriage is deffinetly not a proof of love and that's a choice everyone should make for themselves.

[Kosmo]

But then again, I'd make love to kleiney and you murderous tomato, and I'm one of those guys who will kick your ass if you can't keep the lid on your own urges, no matter what they are.

If you can't keep check on your own shit, then maybe me and my Katana can make a better job on you I'll visit you tonight bub!

[⌐■_■]

I'm not sure what you just said...

But yeah, I guess we'd make a good coupe Kosmo.

[JAL]

Sorry about your HIV man, should have used a condom

[Section_Ei8ht]

Sorry about your HIV man, should have used a condom

Condoms are ineffective against HIV. The jacket has microscopic holes!!!! Kinda cold in here.

[jfas]

i agree, that's pretty stupid

The 'no-sex-before-marriage' rule.

have fun with that

No problemo.

You serious?

Yeah. What's wrong with some patience before you're married?

Nothing wrong with it, if its your choice, right on, but i certainly think one must test drive the car before buying it

[The Postman]

The 'no-sex-before-marriage' rule.

hahahahaha abstinence based sex ed works like a using a hammer and nails to hold down jello. Good luck with that.

I agree with Captain P.

I mean, he's not worrying about HIV or a not-so-planned-kid.

There are alot of other things in this world then just sex and moreover: I think it's cooler to save this (very intimate) thing for the one you (at least think) you really love.

'Cuz remember kids: sex is a wonderfull thing...

Someone's under 18.

[⌐■_■]

The 'no-sex-before-marriage' rule.

hahahahaha abstinence based sex ed works like a using a hammer and nails to hold down jello. Good luck with that.

I agree with Captain P.

I mean, he's not worrying about HIV or a not-so-planned-kid.

There are alot of other things in this world then just sex and moreover: I think it's cooler to save this (very intimate) thing for the one you (at least think) you really love.

'Cuz remember kids: sex is a wonderfull thing...

Someone's under 18.

Nope.

[D3ads]

The whole 'no sex before marriage' thing is ultimately flawed, what would you do if you'd married her, began the 'big night' movement and she has a cunt like a drainpipe or she has her ex-partners name tattooed all over her crotch area (I actually know someone who did that and she was a virgin.. bit odd) Of course I know you can do stuff without having actual intercourse but I think it's an absolute must to see your partner naked before agreeing to any marriage plans...

[Captain P]

I think it's much more important to get to know her, her character, who she is, before marrying. After all, you should love her, not her body... sure, sex is a part of marriage and a very attractive part, but I'd rather stick to one person that I have sex with than having it with multiple persons. After all, it has a huge impact on a person, you don't forget it that easily and I wouldn't want my mind to wander off to other persons when I have sex with my wife. It'd be treachery towards my wife.

Besides... what's wrong keeping something valuable apart for the person you really love, and are willing to marry and stay with for the rest of your life?

I see multiple examples of people that did not have sex before marriage, and lead really good marriages.

[D3ads]

To quote one of my mates; 'sleeping with one woman is like having one CD'

Seriously though, that's cool if you feel like that, I mean I'm a virgin myself at 21.. not out of choice however.. guess I haven't met the right girl yet? I always respect people who choose to wait for intercourse after marriage, even if I don't agree with it, it's impressive to see people stick to those morales in this day and age especially with the media shoving sex in your face front line and sinker!

[The Postman]

I think it's much more important to get to know her, her character, who she is, before marrying. After all, you should love her, not her body... sure, sex is a part of marriage and a very attractive part, but I'd rather stick to one person that I have sex with than having it with multiple persons. After all, it has a huge impact on a person, you don't forget it that easily and I wouldn't want my mind to wander off to other persons when I have sex with my wife. It'd be treachery towards my wife.

Besides... what's wrong keeping something valuable apart for the person you really love, and are willing to marry and stay with for the rest of your life?

I see multiple examples of people that did not have sex before marriage, and lead really good marriages.

You can get to know someone's character and have sex with them. The two are not mutually exclusive. Hello logical fallacy!

PS: I see far many more examples of people who didn't wait until marriage and are thriving. Ironically enough the south and midwest of America (ie: the most religious) has the highest divorce rate per-capita in our entire nation. Wonder why that is...

[kleinluka]

A friend of mine had a roommate who was a very religious christian. His girlfriend wanted to have sex with him but he said no because he felt it wouldnt be the right thing to do as a christian and he wanted to wait until marriage. They ended up breaking up over it.

How stupid is that.

[Tequila]

A friend of mine had a roommate who was a very religious christian. His girlfriend wanted to have sex with him but he said no because he felt it wouldnt be the right thing to do as a christian and he wanted to wait until marriage. They ended up breaking up over it.

How stupid is that.

More like how stupid is he.